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3 Month Update: Living Liver Donor Recovery

December 16, 2017 1 Comment

Today is the 3 month mark since the transplant. So it’s time to share about the recovery process these past two months since I’ve been home. Plus, a bit of good news from my cousin!

Physical Recovery

Sometimes I forget that I’ve donated part of my liver. Meaning I can go about my day and not feel anything weird in my abdomen that reminds me it was cut open and stitched back together. In many ways, life is “back to normal”.

BTW, UCSF has great follow up. About a week or two after I got home, I got a call from the social worker at UCSF. She wanted to see how I was doing, if I had the support I needed, and remind me that I could reach out to her if I needed anything.

My 10lb weight lifting restriction ended at the 2 month mark, or 8 weeks. I was able to lift my own child again that was a huge life improvement for all of us.

My no-alcohol restriction lifted yesterday, at the 3 month mark. I had a glass of wine and whoa, I felt it. I haven’t had a drink since last June so, not surprising I guess.

Here’s how the incision looks now.

Not much different looking than at 1 month really.

However, there are a few things worth mentioning that are still…different.

The skin around my incision does not yet have full feeling, though. It’s prone to getting itchy and irritated.

At the very top of the scar mountain, there is one last scabby piece that still flakes and weeps every once in a while.

That pokey suture finally went away I think.
Here is a video of it at the 1.5 month mark.

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My stomach muscles do seem to “get tired” if I’ve been holding my kiddo a lot (25lbs of wiggly toddler). Sometimes an spot here or there will feel sore. Not painful. Just sore.

I have to be intentional about eating for good gut health (“staying regular”). In the past two months, I have felt like the digestion process is slowing improving, but I still tend toward getting backed up and feeling bloated. More than I used too. I got a Squatty Potty though and I love this thing so much.

Squatty Potty for the win!Get one now. Thank me later.

I’ve not started running yet, partially because I am making myself be a consistent walker before I will allow myself to run again. I haven’t been walking consistently because of weather and other life changes happening. This is one of my primary goals for the remainder of 2017 – regular walking all bundled up against the cold.

Mental/ Emotional Recovery

In the past couple months, I’ve noticed a few things worth mentioning. Getting back home was amazing. And yet, surrounded by all the “normal” life stuff and not yet being able to do things normally…there was some struggle there.

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At times, I felt silly.
When I finally got back to my own home, I was looking and feeling pretty good. But I still couldn’t lift my child or anything over 10lbs. And I had low energy. I felt silly asking for help with the groceries or having friends come over just to put my kid in his crib for a nap and take him out again. I still did it, though.

At times, I felt like I had nothing to give.
Probably because I really didn’t. I fully recognized I had just given a lot and welcomed the recovery phase of NOT doing for a while. But there are many things I enjoy being able to do for and with others that I simply could not do. I had to be okay with (i.e. not let myself feel guilty about) not joining in, not volunteering, not offering for a while.

Even still, I have zero regrets.
All the negative things I’ve mentioned are shared in the spirit of being honest about my experience. Basically, I’ve had a great recovery experience so far. I am overwhelmingly excited that I was able to do this for my cousin and when I think about it, I am still amazed. Amazed that it is medically possible. Amazed that he is doing so well. I’d do it all over again in a heartbeat.

Next Up: 9 Month Update


Read all my Living Liver Donor Story posts.

It started when I found out my cousin needed a liver last February.

It took 5 months of process & procedure to get a surgery date. I share what that process was like and what procedures I had to have done. 


Good News Updates

My cousin told me last week that he is doing so well that they have reduced the number of anti-rejection meds he needs to take, and may reduce it again. We’ve been chatting via the Marco Polo app (so video messages) and I had to laugh at how he was just beaming, radiantly, as he pointed out how white his eyes are. He really does continue to look healthier and happier all the time.

Also, I have heard from a few people who are getting ready to donate or thinking about donating a liver or a kidney. They have followed my journey online and it has helped them in some way. It is really affirming and special to know that sharing my story has helped others prepare or at least consider donating an organ.

You may also like:


  • Living Liver Donor Story: Responding to the need.

  • Living Liver Donor Story: Evaluation Process

  • Postpartum Pain & Physical Therapy

  • My Living Liver Donor Surgery

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  1. Shellie says

    February 10, 2019 at 12:57 pm

    I am in the first stages of getting tested to donate part of my liver to my friend who has become ‘family’. I have been searching for stories and I fell God led me to hours. Thank you for your candid experience.

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